Archive for June, 2008

What did I miss out on

Wednesday, June 18th, 2008

I was married. I was working with a woman that was more mature than I was (mentally and biologically) but younger (physically and intelligently). Since I don't want to name her without her knowing about it first, I'll use a different name for her but will give enough ...

Sharing is caring

Friday, June 13th, 2008

Having a good attorney in the beginning, and knowing what you want will help you in the divorce. Not that there will still be a "winner" and a "loser" but you don't have to lose everything... Shoot for 50/50, demand it- there is NO reason to NOT have it- ...

Sometimes you just need to ask

Thursday, June 12th, 2008

There are times when you have a lot of pent up anger and rage and think really, really dark things. Remember one thing before you do or say something stupid, is being mean the best way to get what you want... DQM tells some of the bad stories that come ...

Remember to plan on travel

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

A few things to make sure that get settled in court if you have children is Share Travel EQUALLY. I have had so many bad lawyers- but also my ex- hired one of the best attorneys money can buy- so that put me at a disadvantage from the get go... ...

Heed my advice

Tuesday, June 10th, 2008

BEFORE you decide to get a divorce, HEED the following advice: Beg, Borrow or steal enough money to hire the most expensive attorney that you can possibly get!! Go for the one that HATES everyone and is known for their savage behavior. Now, you may NOT need this type of attorney, ...

Divorce 101 (Whether to pull out)

Friday, June 6th, 2008

So you've had enough of her BS and can't stand to look at that person anymore? Has it really gotten that bad to where you want out?  Well, then you are with the millions of people who are saying the exact same thing!  The first thing you need to decide ...

Do I need to reoganize my priorities

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

Here's my problem.. I like two girls. I know that doesn't sound like a problem, but give me a chance here. I like the two girls in completely different ways. Completely. The first girl is really attractive, has an excellent sense of humor, is open with me (as ...

Never Enough

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

As a man and as a former-spouse-haver I hear from people with several problems or situations in which things just are not fair. Trust me friends, we are mostly all together with this. Having some woman wanting everything from you is no picnic and when they are your ...

Greed, Revenge, & Misery

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

Greed, revenge, and misery. These are the 3 things my ex would put down on a divorce resume. She is extremely greedy, she seeks revenge on a daily basis and makes my life as miserable as possible! Why does she have to be so nasty? I ...

Batshit Crazy

Tuesday, June 3rd, 2008

I'm not sure how crazy batshit is, but apparently it's crazy enough that people refer to it in references. Well, my ex-wife is now going to be covered by the overall category of batshit crazy. She's on meds. Not lots of 'em, yet. Right now just some anti-depressant. ...